“Sometimes it’s the journey that teaches you a lot about your destination.” – Drake The last few weeks I’ve been in a bit of a haze. Between work and all the family stuff, let’s just say it’s been really hard to see the forest for the trees. I’ve been stressed, not just about this deployment and how it’s affecting all of us, but some other life stuff entirely. Not to go into too much detail…but it involves how other people’s decisions will directly impact me. Yet, I have not control over the choices that are being made. But, after a call with my aunt, I had an ah-ha moment. “It’s not your journey,” she said. You can’t let someone else’s choices dictate how you feel. You may not agree wit